so, no video updates in more than a year. whenever asked about this, there are promises of an updated website and more video posts in the future...but that never materializes. does it seem reasonable to expect some new video content to be posted during the year...and/or receive honest feedback as to why that is not occuring. the lack of good answers does lead to speculation...are you pregnant? you & jake not in the lifestyle anymore? not together anymore? an honest update to your site members seems a reasonable request.

Hi Slow Mo,

First of all there's only one question you asked that's any of your business and I've already addressed that issue as you are apparently aware of based on your line of questioning. Since you already know the answer I'm not really sure why it is you feel compelled to ask it yet again. If you'd like me to make up some elaborate story as to why I haven't added any new photo sets or videos lately I'm sure I could come up with some fairy tale that would appease you however I've been upfront with everyone from the very beginning of this process. I run this site myself with a little help from Jake when he has the time after working his usual 60-70 hour work week. I don't have a dozen employees that I can assign tasks to in order to speed up the process. The new site, photo sets, and videos are not going to "materialize" according to your time-line, they're going to "materialize" once I've managed to complete all the tasks involved in the process. Since you seem to be such an expert on the subject I would suggest you go ahead and build your own site from scratch and see how long it takes you to get it done. By the way, it would actually be a lot easier to build a new site from scratch than to go back and redo a site with over 8 years of content as I'm doing. You have received "honest feedback" as to why it's taking so long to complete the new site so I'm not sure what exactly it is you want from me. It takes time to do this right and I'm not going to release some half-assed site for my members. When I have it done to the standards that I feel my members deserve it will go live and new video and photo set updates will resume.

Regarding your other questions:
- are you pregnant? It's really none of your business however no I'm not pregnant! Do I look pregnant in the live 1-hour cam shows I do every single week for my members?
- you & jake not in the lifestyle anymore? Again, it's really none of your business but yes we are still very much involved in the lifestyle.
- not together anymore? - Again, it's really none of your business however since I've already told you that we are still involved in the lifestyle I guess that answers your question as to whether or not we're still together.
- an honest update to your site members seems a reasonable request. Yes it certainly does and once again, you've been given an honest answer but for some reason you want to "speculate" that there's some other more dubious reason so feel free to believe whatever you'd like.

I also don't agree with your characterization that my site isn't being "updated" simply because it doesn't meet your definition of "update" due to the fact that I haven't added any new videos or photo sets. Nearly every single day I update my journal which sometimes includes the addition of candid pics I think my members would enjoy, I do a live one hour cam show for my members every single week where I give away a pair of my panties, I have bonus/extras that include videos that number in the tens of thousands many of which are constantly being updated, I have 24/7 live streaming voyeur cams (which you can see me sitting in front of my desk 12-14 hours a day working on the new site, I just sent out Valentines day cards to any of my members who requested one, I personally reply to every single member e-mail that is sent to me (99.9% of the time within 24 hours) so I resent the fact that you claim my site isn't being "updated".

Oh and by the way, if I wasn't so "honest" with everyone I could have very easily done what the majority of sites do and pull half the content off of my site and then start rotating it in each week as if it were new content however I have more respect for my members than that and I don't play those kind of games. When you join my site you have full access to every single video and photo set I've ever put on my site (unlike the majority of other sites like mine). As a matter of fact, just today I received mailer for an amateur site I was a member of over 7 years ago announcing their latest "new update" which happened to be a video that was on their site when I was a member 7 years ago. Would you like me to play games with you and pull half the content off the site and start rotating it in as "new updates" like everyone else does? Would that make you feel better? Regarding my members only live cam shows, you do realize that the going rate on any live cam site is at least $6.00 a minute, right? So with the four live cam shows I do every month for my members that's 240 minutes x $6 per minute which would come out to $1,440.00 and you're paying $30/mo for those same 240 minutes of live cam shows plus everything else I've mentioned including over 8 years of videos and photo sets.

I have no problem with people asking about the updates when they don't already know the answer however you are clearly aware of the answer and I do not appreciate your antagonistic accusations so please feel free to move along to another site that's rotating their content so you feel like you're getting the "new updates" that you deserve. If you're not happy with what's being provided to you as a member of my site nobody is holding a gun to your head forcing you to stay here. PLEASE feel free to cancel your membership at any time, I'll even make it easy for you: CANCEL. Oh and by the way, the launch of the new site has just been delayed by an hour as I sit here at 8:30 at night responding to a question that you already knew the answer to. I'm wondering what it is you're doing at 8:30 in the evening but I'm guessing you're not working.

Posted by slow mo on Thursday, February 28, 2013 at 11:19 AM MTN